Resort to having a vasectomy?

only a real jerk would not tell his girl friend that he had a vasectomy. you have been together for 7 years. you don't care all that much for her or maybe its her for you as it is or you would of done married.i do not think you should have kids if you don't want them. not wanting to have children does not make you a bad person. kids are not for every one. i would just tell her that you do not intend to ever have children and to make sure you are having a vasectomy . be up front and honest about it. then its up to her if she want to stay with you or not. she may really want kids and she has the right to have them. some times 2 people just want different things out of life. so be honest with her and then you can say you done the right thing...........p.s. after 7 years its time to say I DO or GOOD BYE